Over two years ago, I loaned some money to another blogger friend of mine. I thought she was a very good friend. This lady was always broke and was always behind on her bills and also needed a better car. I gave her a few bucks along and then one day I sent her a nice check as a loan. She thanked me and told me she would pay me back as soon as possible, well it has been over two years and I have seen no money. She will not answer my emails, now she has changed her email and will not even call me about the loan. I have talked to other bloggers and they have told me that she has hit them up for loans also. If she does not call or email me soon, I am going to let everyone know who she is. Then all of her friends will find out some of the bad in this person. I should have known better, but, I am a nice guy and nice guys usually gets fucked in the end. Take care and have a great week end.
Yeesh, for a minute there I actually wondered if it could have been me ("This lady was always broke and was always behind on her bills"), but I have a strong "do not borrow money from friends" policy for exactly the reasons you stated. Well, I hope for her sake, to clear her conscience and make good with a friend, she coughs up what she owes you because taking the $$ and running ain't no right way to be.
ReplyDeleteNo darlin, it is not you. When I offer to help, that is a gift, this was a loan.
ReplyDeleteDude, I'm sorry to hear that. I know you had to try a lot to even post this post. I'm with Erica's mindset. I never want there to be that confusion amongst those that are supposed to be friends. Hope you get it resolved soon.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about that man. Also, hope your back is feeling better.
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking it is the same woman that our departed friend Rob helped and placed in his trust only to have her violate that trust and tell tales.
ReplyDeleteDarn, I hate to hear that, I'm like you, if I help it's a gift, loans are a different matter. I have an ex in law who's into me for $2400, I'd rather he owe it than have him around asking for another loan.It's been 20 years of peace in the family.:) Like you, I caught my cape on take off a few days ago, didn't make the launch in a single bound either, the back is murder. I have an inversion table that gets used daily, it unloads the lumbar and eases the pain. It's that or the painkillers and I don't like taking meds. I hope your back gets better soon. Incidentally, how's your brother doing?
ReplyDeleteJack, my brother, Thomas, is doing very well. Both of his doctors released him a few weeks ago. Pretty damn good for a man that only has four weeks to live.
ReplyDelete..... debts are meant to be paid...... and that is that.....
ReplyDeleteCat, look at it this way....you DONT have to pay for 18-21 years UNLESS you do it again.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how much money you loaned this person, but no good will come of revealing her identity for revenge. Take it as a lesson, and look at it as the cost you paid to never have to associate with her again.
ReplyDeleteThat is easy for you to say. I am alot like the others, I give money away, but a loan is a loan and should be paid back. I will post her name on this blog and others also. Just to let her friends know what type of person she is. I will give her a few more days to pay me or at least call or email me, then shit hits the fan.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry that some one took advantage of your good nature.I'm happy to hear your brother is doing better.
ReplyDeleteyeah, what Joe said.
ReplyDeleteI just posted her name. I have tried many times to call and email her. She never got back to me. Plus, the last tine I talked with her, she said that she still owed me 300.00 and she would pay me soon, that was a year ago.
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